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"Differences spice things up"

In the beginning you thought: “Wow! We have exactly the same interests. We are exactly the same! We must have been twins in a previous life!” Later you find out: “hmmm… we’re actually quite different. Fascinating! How cool! We complement each other.” Much later you only think: “Why are we so different? God, when you created this man-woman-thing you somehow didn’t think it through to the end. Nothing fits! I’ll happily give my husband back to you!”

The point is: no one eats with two forks or two knifes. To enjoy a wonderful meal you need a knife and a fork. In order to experience life in abundance, you need to have the differences between men and women. If you don’t agree on who is the knife and who the fork, then take this question as the perfect opportunity for practice. You have a different opinion and therefore, you have something to discuss. And that is exactly what differences are here for, among others: to start talking with each other. Moreover, differences result in complementing, excitement and they polish the character. So why do we complain about differences?

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