The Distraction DilemmaSample

Why We Play the Blame Game

The blame game started in the Garden of Eden where humanity first came on the scene. Adam blamed Eve. Eve blamed the serpent. And so it goes! Humans have a huge propensity to blame. This is part of our sin condition. But blaming never leads to successful living. Let’s be honest. We all have pointed the finger at someone at some point in our lives. So, whenever I get distracted or off course in my day, who am I to blame? Where is my scapegoat for my distracted living? I am thinking that I need to have a long talk with the lady that I see in the mirror every morning! The one that always “sits in my chair.” As we grow in Christ, we should not be blaming others for our mistakes, but instead take full responsibility. This can be very humbling. After taking a deep breath, I need to realize that it is up to me to be in charge of me. Ugh! Since I cannot judge or change others’ behavior, I have to square up with the fact that it is up to me to change my responses. I need to invite the Holy Spirit to help me make wise daily choices. The Word says that He will give me strength whenever I am weak.

Have you ever heard of boundaries? The idea of making decisions about what you will or won’t let impact your life. Clear boundaries are essential to a healthy and productive lifestyle. Whenever I have to go to work, I simply don’t get distracted by things that beg my attention otherwise. This is an easy boundary to learn. Other boundaries can be more difficult. But in the end, I am in charge of me and how I respond to outside stimulus. I am in charge of the intentionality of my days. This is an internal battle and an idea worth deep contemplation. Do not be discouraged. Invite the Holy Spirit in to help you and strengthen you each day.

Now is the time to start taking greater responsibility for the outcome of your days. Make wise choices. Set wise boundaries. Look in the mirror and agree with yourself that today you will not be distracted from those things that are most important to yourself. I believe in you.

Ponder:

Consider the priorities of your days. Do you blame others for your distracted living? Where could you take more responsibility for the outcome of your daily choices?

Prayer:

Lord, I do not want to blame others for the end result of my life. I need You desperately. Help me prioritize my days, take responsibility, and live Your best life for me.