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You cannot control your spouse, so you must work at controlling yourself.

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We believe that one of the leading causes (if not the leading cause) of divorce is the lack of self-control. Not choosing to walk according to God’s word, but rather choosing to stumble according to the flesh. It’s selfishness. It’s an internal decision that the way you feel is more important than the truth of God’s Word. You can’t make your spouse’s decisions, but you can make your own and you can choose your reactions! Put less focus on trying to fix your spouse, and more on not allowing their decisions to waiver your commitment to Jesus. One of the best ways to influence your spouse to make Godly decisions is by making Godly decisions for yourself.