The Traditional Identity

While people with a modern identity look inward to determine who they are, those with a traditional identity look outward to figure that out. In a traditional identity, you encompass the values, morals, beliefs, and attitudes of your tribe, for better or worse. The goal is to fit in and create harmony within the group you are part of and help it survive and thrive.

On the surface, it’s easy to see positives in traditional identity—putting others before self, believing in your community, fighting for your heritage. It shows us that our identity is tied to our tribe and whatever role we can play. Your various roles carry responsibilities, and fulfilling those responsibilities gives your life meaning as you contribute to the success of your community.

One drawback to the traditional identity is that aligning your values with what your family or community has always done limits positive change and progress. Consider limited women’s rights, the pressure to have the same vocation as your parents without considering your unique gifts and calling, and religion without relationship.

By contrast, God often called people out of their traditions to partner with him in creating something even better. Abraham, Ruth, and Jesus’s disciples are only a few who left their familiar traditions to put their identity in God. Why do you think God might have asked them to leave even good communities behind?

Focusing on only your group can also lead to prejudice and discrimination against others. This danger is evidenced in extreme nationalism. While the focus of supporting your own family and community should be a priority, there also should be a focus on helping others outside of your community even if they don’t share the same values and customs.

The traditional identity is a foundation on soil; it can erode over time. While it is a better foundation than a modern identity, there is an even better foundation in which to anchor who you are.

THINK THIS: I live my life according to the eternal will of my Father in Heaven, even if it goes against the grain, and am open to revelation from Him to forge a new path for His Kingdom.

NOT THAT: My family and community are the ultimate authority and solely dictate how I live my life.

A community affiliation is good, but a divine identity is greater. What aspects of traditional identity can you celebrate and find value in, and what aspects is God calling you to leave behind?