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Men Who Father

I remember one Saturday morning years ago when my youngest son was seven. We were building a pinewood derby car for the Scouts. He watched my every move, trying to imitate how I held the saw and measured the wooden block.

At one point, he looked up at me with those big, curious eyes and asked, “Dad, why do we have to go to church tomorrow?”

That moment reminded me of my huge responsibility as a father to guide him spiritually.

One key principle in fatherhood and faith is being a living example for our children. They watch everything we do and often imitate us, whether we realize it or not. It’s like what Paul says in 1 Corinthians 11:1: "Follow my example, as I follow the example of Christ." Our kids are like sponges, soaking up our actions and attitudes. If they see us prioritizing our faith and living out Christian values daily, they are more likely to follow suit.

My sons are now in their twenties, but I hope I’ve instilled a sense of honoring Christ in all I do. When my boys saw me reading my Bible or praying, it showed them that my faith was real and important. And when I messed up—which happened more than I’d like to admit—I tried to show them what it looks like to seek forgiveness and rely on God’s grace.

Our home was a place where faith was lived out in everyday moments, from how we handle stress to how we treat each other.

We prayed together, not just at meal times but whenever the need arose. We discussed what we’re thankful for and where we needed God’s help. By involving them in these practices, I taught them that faith wasn’t just for Sundays; it was a daily walk with God. James 5:16 reminds us, "The prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective." So, I prayed for my children and with them, helping them build their own relationship with God.

Being a living example doesn’t mean being perfect. It means being authentic in our walk with Christ. In this journey of fatherhood, we have a profound influence on our children’s faith. By being a living example, we can guide them to grow into strong, faithful followers of Christ. The seeds we plant today will bear fruit for generations to come.

Prayer: Heavenly Father, thank You for the gift of fatherhood. Help me to be a living example of Your love and grace to my children. Give me wisdom to teach, discipline, and encourage them in Your ways. May our home be a place where Your presence is felt and Your Name is honored. In Jesus' Name, Amen.

Reflection: Think about a recent interaction with your children concerning your faith. How can you better reflect Christ's love and guidance in future interactions? Share your thoughts with a fellow believer and seek their prayers and support.