7 Ways to Maintain Purity in Your Christian RelationshipSample

Day 3: How To Maintain Purity, pt. 2

“Plans fail for lack of counsel, but with many advisers they succeed.” - Proverbs 15:22

As you strive to stay pure while dating, your faith will naturally play an important role. It will also help to have people in your corner who support this decision.

3. Lean on Your Faith Together

Pursuing God together is a powerful way to build your relationship on a solid foundation and help you maintain purity because it reminds you why you’re choosing to wait in the first place.

Start by making a habit of going to church together. It's a great way to set aside time each week to focus on your faith and spend quality time with each other. You can also join a Bible study group. These activities will help deepen your understanding of scripture and give you a chance to discuss important topics and learn from others' experiences.

Praying together can be especially meaningful. It doesn't have to be anything formal — just a few minutes at the beginning or end of your day can make a big difference. Sharing your hopes, worries, and gratitude through prayer helps you connect on a deeper level and reminds you both of your shared commitment.

Volunteering for church activities or community service projects is another fun way to grow your faith together. By weaving faith into your everyday lives, you'll find that maintaining purity becomes a natural part of your journey together.

4. Set Up Accountability Partners

Having a trusted friend or mentor who can check in on you and offer support can make a big difference. They can provide encouragement and advice when you're facing temptations or just need someone to talk to.

Choose someone you trust and who shares your values — maybe a close friend, a family member, or even a mentor from church. You don’t have to make it all serious and formal. A simple text message or a quick phone call can often be enough. The most important thing is to have someone you can turn to for encouragement when staying pure in your relationship gets tough.