The 10 Commandments of Christian DatingSample

Proverbs 3:5-6

“Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.”

God’s timing is everything when it comes to dating. It’s so important not to rush into a relationship that isn’t for you just because you’re tired of being alone. Because of this, the next two “commandments” of Christian dating are about timing and shared beliefs.

Christian Dating Commandment #5: Thou Shalt Trust God’s Timing

God knows your desire to find someone to date or marry. God knows your desire to have a family. God knows your desire to leave your single season once and for all. But God also knows the perfect time for all that to happen. While you’re practicing being patient, practice trusting His timing as well.

How to apply this “commandment:”

• Be active in your single season, using the time you have to serve God and love others as you wait for the right relationship.
• Encourage yourself with scripture and stories of biblical patience and trust, reminding yourself that God's timing is perfect and worth the wait.
• Look for guidance and friendship from people you trust to help and encourage you in your faith while you wait for the right time for a relationship.

Christian Dating Commandment #6: Thou Shalt Not be Unequally Yoked

Christianity doesn’t mean the same thing to everyone. Even on a faith-based dating app like Upward, you’ll encounter different types of Christians. The Bible says not to be unequally yoked. Keep this in mind when considering whether or not someone could be “the one.”

How to apply this “commandment:”

• Have open discussions about your beliefs early on to gauge whether you can truly grow in faith as a couple.
• Consider how your faith might affect big life choices, such as going to church, getting married, and having kids.
• Pray for wisdom and direction from God to make sure a relationship is right for you and will bring you closer to Him.