Good Grief Part 2: Learning to Lament in the PsalmsSample

YET, BUT, HOWEVER

The English language is fascinating, and the use of specific words and sentence structure can completely change the meaning of a statement. One of the unique attributes of the Psalms is the use of specific literary themes to help drive home the writer’s point.

In his book “Dark Clouds, Deep Mercy,” MarkVroegop teaches that the use of words such as “but,” “however,” and “yet,” within a lament show an intentional shift from the cause of the lament to trusting God.

Within this structure in Psalm 13, we can see how the author’s despair can move into awe and adoration of his Father. As we read through the pain, we see the author turn from deep pain into praise and trust for God. Laying out our hurts, questions, and pain opens the door for those strong emotions to be transferred into trust. The source of David’s pain doesn’t change as he’s writing out his lament, but it allows him to lean into the source of all joy and hope – his Father God.

If we allow ourselves to see the “yet” or the “but” in our suffering, we begin to turn our pain into rejoicing and praise.

Ask Yourself and Journal:

-How can I embrace the “yet” in my current circumstances?

-Write some of your own “yet” statements. Example – I am hurting, yet I know you’re in control. I don’t understand why (insert situation) happened, yet I believe your plan is better.

Pause to Pray: Father God, please help me to see every “yet,” “but,” and “however” so that I can trust You in the midst of life’s circumstances.