Day 4: Commitment

"‘Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.’” - Mark 10:9

Sign #3 That You’re Ready for a Christian Marriage: You're Prepared for Commitment

Commitment in a Christian marriage goes beyond staying together through the good times; it's about sticking together through the challenges, too. Being ready for marriage means you understand the weight of the vows you'll be taking and are prepared to work through difficulties, communicate effectively, and grow together. It's acknowledging that marriage is a covenant, not just a contract, and you're ready to uphold your end of that covenant.

Mark 10:9 reminds us that marriage is ordained by God and should not be taken lightly. When you enter into a Christian marriage, you are making a lifelong commitment to your partner. This means being there for each other in sickness and in health, in joy and in sorrow, through all the ups and downs life may bring.

Commitment involves staying true to your partner even when things get tough. Every relationship will face challenges, whether they come from external pressures or internal conflicts. Being committed means working through these challenges together rather than giving up or looking for an easy way out.

Effective communication is key to maintaining commitment. Make time to talk openly and honestly with your partner. Share your feelings, listen to each other, and address issues as they arise. Good communication helps prevent misunderstandings and keeps your relationship strong.

Growing together is another important aspect of commitment. Encourage each other in your spiritual journeys. Pray together, study the Bible together, and support each other in living out your faith. As you grow closer to God, you will also grow closer to each other.

Remember that marriage is a covenant. It’s a sacred promise made before God to love, honor, and cherish each other for the rest of your lives. Upholding this covenant requires effort, patience, and a willingness to put in the work needed to build a lasting, loving relationship.

As you prepare for marriage, reflect on what commitment means to you. Consider how you will handle challenges, communicate with your partner, and grow together in faith. By embracing the true meaning of commitment, you lay a strong foundation for a Christ-centered marriage that can withstand any storm.