The double victim

There is something that happens in the middle of an offense. It's something that I call: “the double victim.” It is the person that was wounded. Let's see the case of a couple that gets divorced because of infidelity; the victim starts looking back, nothing goes well for them, even illnesses start to come, and other problems start adding up. While the offender seems to prosper, progress, and move forward.

At this point, it's when you ask yourself: if this is the victim, why doesn’t God make justice for them? Well, the answer, even though it isn’t evident, is clear: this happens because the person who was offended ignored a biblical principle: there is a way out of offense, and it is called forgiveness!

When the person forgives, God changes the effect, and the person who did them wrong starts going downward, while the one who decides to forgive and bless those who hurt them starts going up.