Catechism: How Do We Love Others?نموونە

It’s easy to love people who love you back; that kind of love comes naturally. You don’t have to remind yourself to be nice to someone who is always nice to you or to speak kindly to someone who shares your point of view. Love is effortless when we like and agree with another person. 

But what about the people who aren’t nice to us? The ones who disagree with us, make fun of us, or leave us out? 

Our culture says to cut them off, “cancel” them, and tune them out. 

But the Bible says something totally different!

Jesus calls us to do something completely unnatural, something that requires supernatural help: loving others, including our enemies. This kind of radical love is how we obey God, and it marks us as his followers. The world can’t help but notice that kind of radical love. God already loves you that way—will you commit to loving others like he does?

Read Romans 13:8-10.

Reflection Questions:  

1. Why do you think it’s so important for Christians to show love to others? How does loving everyone, even our enemies, reflect what Christ has done for us? What does it show the world?  
2. In our culture, “love me,” has come to mean “agree with me.” What are some ways you could show love to people, even if you don’t agree with their beliefs, politics, or lifestyle?  
3. Is there a person or group of people you struggle to love? Ask God to help you take practical steps toward loving them. Ask God to renew your mind so that you begin to see each person you interact with as a beloved part of God’s creation.