Grief Survivorنموونە

"Words"

Well-meaning people often try to come up with something to say, when there are no words that can help. Saying too much can make the situation worse. Maybe you’ve heard some of these words that don’t help:

● God must have needed another angel in heaven.
● You’re young. You can marry again.
● You can always have more children.
● They’re in a better place.

Insensitive remarks often come from people who have no idea what you’re feeling right now. If you’re tempted to strike back and set the record straight, it might be wise to take a deep breath and count to 10. Hopefully, the well-meaning person will learn from your silence!

Some words that can help are:

● I’m so sorry.
● I can’t imagine how you must be feeling.
● I’d love to bring you a meal.

We can’t control others’ words. But in James 1:19, Jesus’ brother gives us three tips to manage our words in any situation: Be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to get angry.