Encouragement and Accountability: Supporting Your Partner in Faith When You’re Starting as Friends Firstনমুনা

Day 2: Shared Goals and Individual Faith

When it comes to supporting your partner in faith when you’re starting as friends first, walking side by side not only strengthens your bond but also keeps you both accountable. Setting shared spiritual goals is one of the best ways to grow closer to God and each other. But equally important is making space for your individual journeys. Balancing these two can feel tricky, but it’s absolutely worth it.

Start by thinking about what shared faith practices look like for you as a team. Maybe you commit to praying together over the phone every night, reading a devotional weekly, or attending church consistently. These shared goals become touchstones in your relationship — reminders that you’re not only partners in life but also in faith. They give you a sense of unity and purpose, creating moments to draw near to God together.

For example, you might decide to start a Bible-reading plan as a duo, encouraging each other to stay consistent and discussing what you’re learning along the way. Or you might get involved in serving at your church, putting your faith into action as a team. Whatever goals you choose, make sure they’re practical and achievable, and remember to celebrate the progress you make.

At the same time, it’s important to honor each other’s individual faith journeys. God speaks to each of us in unique ways, and your personal relationship with Him will look different from your partner’s. Proudly champion each other’s growth. Is your partner feeling called to start a Bible study group? Cheer them on. Do you feel stirred to explore your spiritual gifts? Share that excitement with them. By encouraging each other’s personal steps of faith, you both grow stronger — not just as individuals but as a couple, too.

A key part of this balance is trust. Trust God’s work in your partner’s life, even if their pace or process looks different from yours. Remember, each step they take, big or small, is a victory worth celebrating.

Today, reflect on one goal you can set together as partners in faith and one area where you can support each other’s individual spiritual growth. Pray for God’s wisdom in finding harmony between your shared goals and unique paths, asking Him to strengthen your relationship as you walk toward Him — both together and individually.