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If you think back on your teenage years, you probably remember the absolute humiliation you experienced at the hands of your parents. Not because they did anything particularly humiliating, but just because they existed! The irony is that our parents probably felt a similar humiliation when it came to the poor choices we made and the lack of maturity we displayed. But eventually (hopefully!), we all got to the point where we began to see our parents as actual human beings and not just people put on the planet to drive us crazy. And yes, our parents see us the same way, eventually.

This proverb refers to the mutual honor each generation of family should ideally experience. Sure, the older generation can look to the younger ones and judge their musical tastes, clothing choices, and slang usage. The younger generation can look at the older ones and roll their eyes at their technological ineptitude, their attempts to stay culturally relevant, and their own clothing choices. But what is that doing for either generation, except pitting them against one another? Looking for ways to make them feel small while we elevate our status? The spirit behind this proverb is that of respect, esteem, and high regard, and that leads to interdependence on one another in the best way possible. By honoring one another, our relationships are strengthened, our trust is deepened, and our love brings us together.

Imagine if, instead of embarrassment, shame, and frustration toward the other generation, we felt pride, respect, and humility. What might we learn from one another when our posture toward the generations above us and below us was one of curiosity and not judgment? This week, see how you might be a student of someone in a generation outside of yours and think through what they might have to teach you.