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"Are We There Yet?"

When children travel they love to ask, “Are we there yet?” As you navigate life after loss, you may wonder the same thing. Some frequently asked questions are:

How long does grief take?
As long as it takes. Each person has their own timeline and unique way of coping with loss.

Will I always miss my loved one?
Probably so. But over time, the time of deep ache will become more bearable, and memories of the person you’re missing will become gentle reminders of the impact they made in your life. Embrace it. It’s OK to always miss them.

Why are people rushing me?
People, especially those who have never lost someone close, may make insensitive comments about how long your mourning lasts. If someone is in a hurry for you to “be yourself again,” remember they did not experience your relationship with the person you’re missing. Take as long as you need.

What about closure?
Have you ever heard the saying, “Closure is for bank accounts not for love accounts”? The last thing you want to do is to try to “get over” someone you love! Grief and mourning help you process the emotions of sorrow, remember the person you’re missing, and take steps toward healing and a joy-filled life.

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