1 Timothy 3:2, 4, 12

So a church leader must be a man whose life is above reproach. He must be faithful to his wife. He must exercise self-control, live wisely, and have a good reputation. He must enjoy having guests in his home, and he must be able to teach.

He must manage his own family well, having children who respect and obey him.

A deacon must be faithful to his wife, and he must manage his children and household well.