Effect of Envy

We don’t pay enough attention to envy.

It is a trait or tendency that can sneak up on us. We couch it with all sorts of terms like, “I aspire to be like him or her.” But underneath can lie an insidious spirit that brings out the worst in us.

Unhealthy envy is being discontented with who we are—who God created us to be. Envious people posture. By that, I mean that we pose as being different from who we are. Often, this means modeling ourselves after someone else. When posturing, there is often name-dropping, boasting, or stretching truths to enhance the image of ourselves we are trying to project.

James points out that this behaviour simply does not originate from or please God. In the spiritual realm, the evil one uses envy like a seed that grows into bitterness, often without our recognizing it. It can start out harmlessly, but in no time can it morph into an evil and, James says, a poisonous influence in our lives.

Over years of mentoring, I have met hundreds who are ensnared by the effects of envy. Leaders who long to be like successful people “so and so.” A woman may have endured the jealous behaviour of her siblings or parents, who are envious of her success, marriage, or appearance.

Respond in Prayer

Jesus, Forgive me when I am not content with how you created me. I turn over to you my jealous feelings. Envy quickly turns to contempt, and I know I may have already hurt others through my behaviour. Bring those people to mind and help me heal the relationship.

Carson Pue