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Day 2: When to Talk About Finances in a Relationship

“Be sure you know the condition of your flocks, give careful attention to your herds; for riches do not endure forever, and a crown is not secure for all generations.” - Proverbs 27:23-24

As your relationship grows, talking about money becomes very important. Proverbs 27:23-24 gives us wise advice: "Be careful to know the condition of your flocks, and pay attention to your herds; because wealth doesn't last forever." This verse reminds us to be aware of and responsible for what God has given us. In relationships, this means understanding each other's financial situation is key for long-term stability.

So, when should you bring up the topic of money? The right time is when your relationship reaches a level where your lives are starting to intertwine. This could be when you're discussing future plans like getting engaged or any other commitment that merges your financial responsibilities. At this stage, your decisions start to affect each other, making it essential to understand how each of you handles money, your financial goals, and any potential challenges you might face.

Of course, like with all aspects of your relationship, it’s important to make sure you’re following God’s will for the timing of your relationship and not rushing things. Pray together and ask for His guidance on when to have these important talks. Trust that God will show you the right time and give you the wisdom you need.

Talking about money can make your relationship stronger and more secure. Always be honest and kind when discussing finances, and listen to each other's thoughts and concerns. Trust that God will help you find the right moment to have these important conversations and guide you through them.