21 Days to Sweeter Friendshipsናሙና

Happy Together

Rejoice with those who rejoice, weep with those who weep. Romans 12:15, ESV

It was the sweetest thing. After years of asking God to provide, I got a new (used) car. My friend, Barbara, who was also praying for a new car like mine, got an old van instead. She was thankful to have a working vehicle, but she truly wanted a little SUV like mine.

When it would have been easy to be jealous, my friend rejoiced with me. She got excited, hugged me, and sincerely was glad for God’s goodness with me. I know it must have been challenging, but it meant the world to me to have her rejoice while I was rejoicing.

Why is this such a hard thing for us to do for each other?

The Bible also tells us to weep with each other. I think that comes easier, but showing compassion, support, enthusiasm, and celebrating the good fortunes of others can be tough!

Think about it. How hard is it to celebrate when ...

• they get the promotion we wanted?
• the doors open for them suddenly?
• their husband or wife gets a big raise?
• they buy a new lake house, a boat, or both?
• they head to some exotic destination—again?
• they get a wonderful new spouse, baby, grandchild, or book deal?

You name the thing. Whatever “it” is for you - that thing you so desperately desire. Can you rejoice when someone else gets it? This is where it gets real and sometimes very hard.

Prayer– Lord, this is so hard. Especially with certain people, but I ask You to help me treat people the way I want to be treated. Enable me to give others what I’d like for them to give back to me.

Reflect –Ouch! This one cut so close to home for me. Maybe you too? Read back over the devotion and write a response. What is God showing you today?