7 Day No More Yelling Moms Devotionalናሙና

CHALLENGE 2: 

Trade one harsh or unkind phrase you often use with your child (old habit), for a “gentle answer” in the heat of the moment (new habit). Write it out. 

Example:

Old phrase that stirs up anger (angry accusatory tone):
 

“Why do you never listen to me?!”
 

New parenting script (calm and gentle tone):
 

“Son, I love you, but it feels like you aren’t hearing me. I know you are focused on your game, but it would be best if you looked at my face and repeated my request so we don’t misunderstand each other. Thank you.”

How do we feel when someone speaks harshly to us? If you are like me, I don't feel very open to learning from you. I'm not teachable because I become emotional or defensive--even angry! Our kids are immature so we can't expect them to respond well when we yell at them. Today, we get to focus on speaking kindly to them, even when they are not being kind, themselves. Mom sets the tone and models right responses!

ONE LAST THOUGHT:

Sometimes we think our kids will never change. We get exasperated by the many instances of triggers each day. It takes a CHILDHOOD to raise a child. And it takes a childhood to mature.That’s 18 years! Parenting is a marathon, but we are not running alone. Exasperated moments are the perfect times to stop and say a quick prayer, asking God to fill us up with His strength, patience, and love for our kids. Let’s not feel helpless. Instead, let’s go to our loving Father who longs to help us in every challenging moment! 

LET’S PRAY:
 

“Lord, I don’t want to yell at my kids. I don’t want to shame them with my harsh words. I can see it stirs up anger in them--and me! God, guard my mouth. Help me to use gentle, soft words, even when they are pushing my buttons. Let my gentle words have a positive impact on my child’s heart and remove any bitterness or anger from them. Thank You, Lord, for helping me today! In Jesus’ Name, Amen! 

CONSIDER: What is the kindest thing you have said to your child recently?