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Lead Me

DAY 1 OF 5

WHO YOU’RE CALLED TO BE  

I’ll never forget the weight behind my wife’s words leading up to one of the most important conversations of my life. “We need to talk.” No one ever wants to hear those words, myself included. They can lead to hard conversations. Hard, yet necessary. 

Sarah expressed her desire for me to be more present, more understanding, more in touch with my own fragile heart and emotions. Ultimately, she needed me to find the strength and confidence to lead her and our family well. I knew in that moment that I couldn’t do it unless God was leading me each step of the way.

I had been that double-minded man that James wrote about, swayed back and forth by the waves of the sea, allowing myself to be led by the wrong voices and influenced by my own shifting emotions. There was a clear way forward, but first, I had to accept my need for change. 

It goes without saying that our marriage didn’t change overnight. But one small step at a time, with God’s leading hand, Sarah and I have made incredible strides. You can too. Moving forward requires a hard look at yourself in the mirror. If you’re willing to see yourself clearly, you’ll see some things that need to change. Only then can you move forward toward becoming who God has called you to be.

Over the course of the next five days, I’ll share some simple biblical and practical lessons that are helping me along the way. If you’re willing to look inward, then together, with God’s help, we can take some important steps toward healthier relationships. 

Consider:

No human is perfect. Name one of your imperfections that negatively impacts your marriage and family. Name two or three, if you dare. 

Have you had one of those “we need to talk” conversations? What did you hear? What did you say? Did it result in any change?

  

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Lead Me

Torn between two worlds? It is possible to follow God’s call and still invest in your family. Discover the extraordinary joy of actively and intentionally pursuing your wife and children. You will be reminded that it’s messy, it’s difficult, and it’s the most rewarding thing you can do, beyond following Christ.

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