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She Is… A Cartographer Do you even know what a cartographer is?! A cartographer is a person who makes maps; a mom needs to be excellent at setting boundaries for her children. If you don’t set boundaries for your children, no one will! Setting boundaries may initially seem difficult, but in the long haul of mothering, it will make your life so much easier, indeed! You must set boundaries concerning the way your children dress and talk; you must set boundaries concerning who their friends are, what they watch on TV, what sites they visit on the computer and what kind of music they listen to. You must not only be an excellent cartographer, but you must be a vigilant cartographer! It is the job that never ends!! You must set boundaries not only with your words but also with your life. Do not use words or phrases that are off limits for your children. Do not watch movies or listen to music that is out of bounds for your children. As a vigilant cartographer, you must watch for enemy forces that may be attacking boundaries that you have set for your family. As the one in charge of those boundaries, you must be quick to usher in peace to those areas of their lives. “I think that you are struggling with your sister. What can I do to help your relationship with her? You know, the bottom line is, you must be kind all the time.” “I have heard you speak disrespectfully about that teacher. I know that biology is not your favorite subject but we still must respect those in authority so let’s figure out how you can bless this teacher.” Heart boundaries are as important as those which impact daily choices concerning how your children are allowed to speak, dress, be entertained and who their friends are. You must be watching attentively for weeds that are growing in young hearts and then remove the weeds before they have a chance to take root and grow out of control. She is… an expert cartographer! Practical Application: Today, would you write me an email at carol@carolmcleodministries.com? Please let me know how this teaching has helped you and how I can pray for you! I look forward to hearing from you!