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Empathizing

One of the most profoundly powerful tools we have in marriage—and one of the most profoundly lacking in many relationships—is empathy.

 

Empathy isn't just trying to see things from your spouse's point of view—it's the act of imagining yourself in their shoes. Feeling what they feel. Hearing what they hear. Creatively putting yourself in their frame of mind—with all the life story they've lived up to that point—so you can better understand them.

 

This isn't easy, but it's necessary. Fortunately, you have God on your side! Ask Him to help you empathize with your spouse, because that's when you really start to achieve unity with them.

 

Because of what it asks of your imagination and your emotions, empathy is ultimately one of the most creative acts you can undertake in your marriage. The more you try it, the more you will begin to understand your spouse and find a thriving unity between the two of you.

 

Give empathy a try today and see what happens.