Grace

As moms, we won’t get it right all of the time. We all have days when we’re tired, frustrated, and depleted that cause us to lash out and say something hurtful. Rather than beating ourselves up, we can learn to extend grace to ourselves and to our kids.

There were plenty of moments when my kids were growing up that I would get upset and respond poorly. I can remember one time in particular when it felt like we were having the same exhausting conversation about the same mistake over and over. How many times did I have to tell them? When would they ever learn? Then I imagined God saying, “Good thing I don’t parent you like that!” It was a much-needed reminder that God offers so much grace and mercy, and I need to do the same. 

One of the best ways I’ve helped my kids learn about grace is to ask them for forgiveness when I am wrong. I’ve done it from the time they were small, through their teenage years, and still today. I don’t just say I’m sorry, because lots of people apologize and don’t mean it. I ask them to forgive me. It’s an important distinction that I’ve found leaves a lasting impression. 

When I ask them for forgiveness, it builds trust between us because they see I’m willing to humble myself and admit my mistakes. It gives them the opportunity to practice extending grace, even when it’s hard, they’re hurt, and they don’t want to. It also shows them how to have a repentant heart with friends and family, and also with God. 

As parents, we’re the closest and most impactful example in our kids’ lives of what it looks like to have a relationship with God. When we teach our kids that asking for forgiveness isn’t something to be ashamed of or run from, they will know they can turn to God for forgiveness without fear of condemnation.

The way we live our lives as Christians not only gives our kids an example to follow (good or bad), but it also shapes their view of God’s character. In everything we do and say, we should try our best to acknowledge Christ, resemble Him, and point our kids to Him. When we do, we help strengthen their earthly relationships and their relationship with God.

We pray God used this plan to minister to your heart.

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