Uhlelo Lwamahhala Lokufunda nokuthandaza okuhlobene ne UGenesise 2:24

Noma nini lapho othile ebuza ukuthi siyakholelwa yini ocansini ngaphambi komshado siphendula ngokuthi "yebo no cha." Impendulo edidayo ekuqaleni, kepha isinikeza ithuba lokwenza iphuzu elibalulekile. Unkulunkulu uqinisekisa ubulili bethu njengabantu futhi asikwazi ngokuzumayo ukuba yi-asexual. Ngalesi sizathu, sikholelwa kwezocansi ngaphambi komshado. Siyashesha ukulandela, noma kunjalo, ngokuthi ukwenza ucansi lobulili ngaphambi komshado ngokusobala akuhambisani nezimiso zikaNkulunkulu. 

Umhlaba wethu ugcwele abantu, kodwa uNkulunkulu ufuna amadoda ombuso azosukuma aziphendulele ngezenzo zawo, imindeni yawo, amabandla awo kanye nemiphakathi yawo. Uma sinobuholi obunjalo obubambekayo, uNkulunkulu uzotuswa kuzo zonke izici zempilo yethu.

Sesha i-#RelationshipGoals ezinkundleni zokuxhumana, futhi uzothola izithombe ezibonakala ziphelele zabashadile abathandanayo. Kodwa kuthiwani uma umbono wobudlelwano umphakathi wethu owuthengisayo ungamanga? Umfundisi uMichael Todd ubhale Izinjongo Zobudlelwane: Indlela Yokunqoba Ekujoleni, Umshado, kanye Nocansi mayelana nokuba nemigomo yobudlelwano evela kuNkulunkulu futhi ihambisane nalokho Asenze ukuba sibe yikho.

Uma uke waba nemibuzo ngeBhayibheli, uphakathi kwabantu abahle! Besike saba lapho sonke. Ngezinye izikhathi izingxenye zeBhayibheli zingadida ngempela. Kulolu Hlelo LweBhayibheli, sizoxoxa ngezinye zezindima okungaba nzima ukuziqonda futhi sifunde amacebiso awusizo okuhlola imiBhalo.

Imishado eqinile ayivele izithuthukise. Ithemba lethu ukuthi uzothola izimo zengqondo, izindinganiso nemikhuba edingekayo ukwakha umshado onempilo noqinile oyohlala impilo yonke. Lolu hlelo lwezinsuku ezinhlanu luthathwe kwi-The Pre-Marriage Course eyenziwe nguNicky noSila Lee, ababhali beThe Marriage Book.

God created us for relationships. In fact, the greatest commandment—to love God with all our heart, soul, and mind and to love our neighbor as our self—is all about relationships (Matthew 22:36-40). But that’s not exactly easy all the time; relationships are messy and tough. In this plan, you’ll encounter practical Scripture passages that will help you build, maintain, and expand your relationships with God and others.

Umshado ubudlelwane obunzima futhi obuzuzisayo, izikhathi eziningi siyakhohlwa ukuthi "Ngiyavuma" kuyisiqalo nje kuphela. Ngenhlanhla, iBhayibheli linokuningi elikushoyo mayelana nomshado ngokubona komyeni kanye nokomfazi. Amavesi amafushane ozohlangabezana nawo nsuku zonke kuloluhlelo enzelwe ukukusiza ukhule ekuqondeni kwakho umklamo womshado kaNkulunkulu-futhi ukhulise ubudlelwani nomlingani wakho ngaleso sikhathi.

Kulolu cwaningo, sizokuqondisa ohambweni lobudlelwano oluhlanganisa izindlela ezingu-12 ezibalulekile zokuba Nothando Oluhlala Njalo.    

Impilo imayelana nobudlelwano Impilo imayelana nobudlelwano. Sidalelwe ukuhlala ebudlelwaneni Naye (Mina - Wena), Abanye (Mina - Wena) noMhlaba (Me - It). Ngakho-ke, sifuna ukuya ngokujulile kuNkulunkulu, eduze komunye nomunye, futhi siqhubeke emhlabeni wethu.

Jula. Bhukudela kude. Lolu hlelo lokufunda lwezinsuku ezingu-14 lwentsha lusiza ukuyisa ingokomoya lakho kwelinye izinga. Uzothola ithuba lokucwila eZwini likaNkulunkulu futhi uphonselwe inselelo ngokuzinikela kwansuku zonke endleleni.