Quality Time

Luke 10:38-42

As Jesus and his disciples were on their way, he came to a village where a woman named Martha opened her home to him. She had a sister called Mary, who sat at the Lord’s feet listening to what he said. But Martha was distracted by all the preparations that had to be made. She came to him and asked, ‘Lord, don’t you care that my sister has left me to do the work by myself? Tell her to help me!’ ‘Martha, Martha,’ the Lord answered, ‘you are worried and upset about many things, but few things are needed—or indeed only one. Mary has chosen what is better, and it will not be taken away from her.’”

Jesus spent most of His time on earth pouring into people, highlighting the value of Quality Time.

What It Means

This love language is all about undivided attention. People with this love language feel most loved when someone spends quality time with them, engaging in meaningful conversations or shared activities. It's not just about being in the same room; it's about focusing all your energy on them and making them feel valued.

How Jesus Showed This Love Language

Jesus consistently made time for individual interactions and deep conversations, valuing quality time with those around Him. A notable instance is found in Luke 10:38-42, during His visit to Mary and Martha's home. While Martha was busy with preparations, Mary chose to sit at Jesus' feet, listening to His teachings. Jesus acknowledged Mary's choice as the better one, emphasizing the importance of prioritizing personal connection and spiritual nourishment over busyness, highlighting the value of quality time in building relationships.

How to Show Love to Someone with This Love Language

Dedicate time to be with them without distractions, plan special dates or activities, and show interest in their thoughts and feelings. Make an effort to create moments that allow you to connect on a deeper level, whether it's a quiet evening walk or a night in talking about dreams and ideas. Remember, it's about making the person feel important and loved through the gift of your time and full attention.