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It’s Time To Choose Integrity
Integrity means living a life that is consistent, honest, and moral—both in public and in private. It’s about doing the right thing, even when no one is watching. In the battle against lust, pornography, and infidelity, integrity is crucial because these sins often flourish in secrecy. When you choose to live with integrity, your actions align with your words, and duplicity is removed. Integrity isn’t just about avoiding sin, but actively pursuing righteousness in every area of your life. It sets a powerful example for your family, establishing a foundation of trust, respect, and accountability.
One of the ways I ensure I walk in integrity is by being transparent with my wife—addressing potential temptations before they have a chance to take root. For example, a woman recently messaged me on social media regarding a business inquiry. Nothing inappropriate was said, but my mind tempted me with thoughts like, “Why not check out her profile?” Instead of entertaining those thoughts, I got up, went to my wife’s office, and laid my phone down in front of her. I explained the situation and showed her the message. Neither of us had done anything wrong, but this simple act of transparency was a step toward protecting both my heart and my marriage.
That’s what integrity looks like: being proactive, addressing even the smallest temptations before they have a chance to grow, and maintaining transparency with the ones you love. When you live with integrity, you honor God, your spouse, and the commitments you’ve made, ensuring that your life remains aligned with your values.
Challenge
Reflect on areas of your life where there may be a lack of integrity. Are there secrets, small lies, or hidden actions? Commit today to walk in integrity, asking God to help you align your words and actions.
Prayer
Lord, help me to walk in integrity, even when it’s difficult. Remove any duplicity or hidden sin from my life and give me the courage to live honestly before You and others. Amen.
About this Plan
Through this 27-day devotional, Don Hopkins leads you on a journey toward healing—healing for you, your wife, and your marriage. Each day is designed to lead you closer to freedom, redemption, and reconciliation. I won’t sugarcoat it: the road ahead requires honesty, humility, and hard work. But as you lean into the tools shared in this bible plan and God’s grace, you will discover that He provides the strength to overcome lust and rebuild trust in your marriage.
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