BCF Church
Boundaries: Setting Limits For A Healthy Life
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Join us for a Night of Worship!
đź—“ Date: Friday, October 03, 2025
đź•– Time: 7:00 PM - 9:00PM
đź“Ť Location: BCF Worship Center, 2414 Central Blvd.
Bring your family and friends! Let's gather together as a church family to lift our voices, draw near to God, and celebrate His goodness.
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đź—“ Date: Friday, October 03, 2025
đź•– Time: 7:00 PM - 9:00PM
đź“Ť Location: BCF Worship Center, 2414 Central Blvd.
Bring your family and friends! Let's gather together as a church family to lift our voices, draw near to God, and celebrate His goodness.
Don't miss it!
Peru Missions Trip
Our Peru missionaries are leaving Friday, October 03, 2025!
We ask you to please join us in praying for the team's safety and for open hearts to the gospel.
The team is still taking donations that will go toward the travel expenses. If you would like to make a donation, you can do so online by choosing Peru Missions Trip on the dropdown menu. Your support will help us bring hope and encouragement to one of the darkest areas in the world.
Thank you for being a part of God's mission work!
We ask you to please join us in praying for the team's safety and for open hearts to the gospel.
The team is still taking donations that will go toward the travel expenses. If you would like to make a donation, you can do so online by choosing Peru Missions Trip on the dropdown menu. Your support will help us bring hope and encouragement to one of the darkest areas in the world.
Thank you for being a part of God's mission work!
Small Groups Launch
We will be launching our Small Groups on Sunday, October 19, 2025!
Do you enjoy connecting with others and making people feel welcome? Consider Hosting a small group! Hosting is simple: open your home, share some refreshments, and create space for conversation and prayer.
We'll provide the study materials and support - you provide the hospitality!
If you're interested or have any questions, Chris Croy will be in the back to sign you up or answer any questions you might have.
Together we can build a stronger, more connected church family!
Do you enjoy connecting with others and making people feel welcome? Consider Hosting a small group! Hosting is simple: open your home, share some refreshments, and create space for conversation and prayer.
We'll provide the study materials and support - you provide the hospitality!
If you're interested or have any questions, Chris Croy will be in the back to sign you up or answer any questions you might have.
Together we can build a stronger, more connected church family!
Boundaries: Setting Limits For A Healthy Life
Part 1
September 28, 2025
Part 1
September 28, 2025
What is a boundary?
A boundary defines where "I" ends and "you" begin.
A boundary defines where "I" ends and "you" begin.
“Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ.”
Galatians 6:2, English Standard Version
Galatians 6:2, English Standard Version
“For each will have to bear his own load.”
Galatians 6:5, ESV
Galatians 6:5, ESV
“The load I will put on you is light.”
Matthew 11:30, Good News Bible
Matthew 11:30, Good News Bible
What happens when I have no boundaries?
Four types of people with boundary problems:
Four types of people with boundary problems:
1. People who can’t say “No.”
- feels guilty and controlled by others: can’t set boundaries.
- feels guilty and controlled by others: can’t set boundaries.
2. People who can’t hear “No.”
- aggressively or manipulatively violates the boundaries of others.
- aggressively or manipulatively violates the boundaries of others.
“Don’t cheat your neighbor by moving the ancient boundary markers; don’t take the land of defenseless orphans.”
Proverbs 23:10, New Living Translation
Proverbs 23:10, New Living Translation
3. People who can’t say “Yes.”
- sets boundaries against the responsibility to love.
- sets boundaries against the responsibility to love.
“Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ.”
Galatians 6:2, ESV
Galatians 6:2, ESV
“Love your neighbor as yourself.”
Matthew 22:39, NLT
Matthew 22:39, NLT
4. People who can’t hear “Yes.”
- sets boundaries against receiving care from others.
- sets boundaries against receiving care from others.
How do I establish healthy boundaries?
Enforce boundaries with consequences.
Enforce boundaries with consequences.
“In the name of the Lord Jesus. You must call a meeting of the church. . . . Then you must throw this man out and hand him over to Satan so that his sinful nature will be destroyed and he himself will be saved on the day the Lord returns.”
1 Corinthians 5:4–5, NLT
1 Corinthians 5:4–5, NLT
What about grace?
Forgiveness is freely given, but trust is earned.
Forgiveness is freely given, but trust is earned.
“Most of you opposed him, and that was punishment enough. Now, however, it is time to forgive and comfort him. Otherwise he may be overcome by discouragement. So I urge you now to reaffirm your love for him.”
2 Corinthians 2:6–8, NLT
2 Corinthians 2:6–8, NLT
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