Hillside Assembly of God

The Secret to a Happy Marriage

Ephesian 5:22-26

Esther 1 “to display her beauty” because, (V.7) “she was so lovely to look at.” NKJV- “she was beautiful to behold.”

V. 12- “the King became furious and burned with anger.”
V. 13- “men who understood the times and were closest to the King.”

“In the middle of a conflict w/ my wife… I am more likely to be feeling:
1. My wife doesn’t respect me right now. 2. My wife doesn’t love me right now.

Six major values, Dr. Eggerich says, spell respect to men- they form an acronym for CHAIRS.
#1 C___________.

Genesis 2:15 “The Lord God took the man and put him in the Garden of Eden to work it and take care of it. ”

#2 H_____________.

#3 A_______________.
If you want him to feel respect from you, tell him he has ___% authority in your marriage and home, is also ___% responsibility and accountability to God.

#4 I_______________.

#5 R__________________.

#6 S__________________.

Understand two important biological facts:
1. He is sexually stimulated by his ________.
2. He needs sexual ________ as you need emotional _________.

The respect test: “I was thinking about you today and several things I respect about you, and I just want you to know that I respect you.”