1 Kings 12:6-8

King Rehoboam asked the elders who had advised Solomon during his lifetime, “How do you think I should answer these people?” They said, “You should be like a servant to them today. If you serve them and give them a kind answer, they will serve you always.” But Rehoboam rejected this advice. Instead, he asked the young men who had grown up with him and who served as his advisers.