Proverbs 18:24 (NKJV) A man who has friends must himself be friendly...
I went out to find a friend,
But could not find one there.
I went out to be a friend,
And friends were everywhere!
2. SYMPATHY
Greek:
Pathos – feeling
Sameness of Feeling
Charles Parkhurst, “Sympathy is two hearts pulling at one load.”
A farmer was out plowing his field one spring morning. The spring thaw had just occurred and there were many muddy valleys in the field. Through one particularly wet place his tractor became stuck in the mud. The harder he tried, the deeper he became stuck. Finally, he walked over to his neighbor's to ask for help. The neighbor came over and looked at the situation. He shook his head, and then said, "It doesn't look good, but I tell you what. I'll give it a try pulling you out. But if we don't get it out, I'll come sit in the mud with ya!"
Although we may not all be farmers, we do experience getting "stuck in the mud" from time to time. And chances are we probably know someone who is stuck right now.
3. CONSIDERATION
Carries the idea of, thoughtfulness...
I have wept in the night for the shortness of sight
That to somebody's need made me blind;
But I never have yet felt a twinge of regret
For being a little too kind.
- C. R. Gibson - PULPIT HELPS, July, 1991
4. MERCY
A more glorious victory
Cannot be gained than this,
That when the injury began on his part,
The Kindness should begin on ours. - Anonymous
Story of Louis XII of France...
Titus 3:4 But after that the KINDNESS and love of God our Saviour TOWARD MAN appeared, 5 Not by works of righteousness which we have done, but according to his MERCY he saved us
5. RESTORATION
Galatians 6:1-2 (NKJV) Brethren, if a man is overtaken in any trespass, you who are spiritual restore such a one in a spirit of gentleness, considering yourself lest you also be tempted.
2 Bear one another's burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ.
Kindness directs us to
Reach out…
Bring them back to Jesus…
"Kindness has won more people to Christ than either zeal, eloquence, or learning." Frederick William Faber