Our founding Fathers put in the Declaration of Independence that dictated the vision of America --- that Americans would have the right to the pursuit of happiness.

Happiness is not having the right circumstances

Recent survey of millennials: What are your most important life goals?

Over 80% said, to get RICH.

Over 50% said, to become FAMOUS.

Harvard Study of Adult Development may be the longest study ever done. For 75 years they tracked the lives of 724 men. Started in 1938.

The lessons are not about wealth or fame or working harder.

They came away with one major finding: Good relationships keep us happier and healthier.

3 Big lessons about relationships……

1. Close relationships

2. Quality (not quantity) of relationships

3. Stable, supportive marriages

If there’s a key word in relationship, it’s the word “GIVE.”