The first key Ingredient of neighboring is Joy.

“We all suffer, and we all triumph, and we all get to choose how we hold both” -Demi Moore, Inside Out: A Memoir

...he went on his way rejoicing. (Acts 8:39)

Showing the love of God is so important. I have such gratitude [joy] for what Jesus has done for me I want to show love to others to express my love for him.
-Kristin VanMeter