Silver Creek Church
Conflict - Week Two
The Conflict Roadmap
Locations & Times
Silver Creek Church
252 N Chillicothe Rd, Aurora, OH 44202, USA
Sunday 8:00 AM
Sunday 9:30 AM
Sunday 11:00 AM
4 Questions
1. Am I in conflict?
2. Can I overlook it?
3. What is my part to own?
4. How can I seek reconciliation?
1. Am I in conflict?
2. Can I overlook it?
3. What is my part to own?
4. How can I seek reconciliation?
1. Am I in conflict?
How to determine if you're in conflict
- Has someone sinned against me? Have I sinned against someone?
- Has someone broken my trust in them?
- Have I spoken poorly about someone?
- Am I imagining payback, revenge, or justice?
- Am I actively avoiding someone?
- Has someone sinned against me? Have I sinned against someone?
- Has someone broken my trust in them?
- Have I spoken poorly about someone?
- Am I imagining payback, revenge, or justice?
- Am I actively avoiding someone?
2. Can I overlook it?
When to NOT overlook at offense:
- If the offense dishonors God
- If the offense broke a relationship
- If the offense is hurting others
- If the offense is hurting the offender
- If the offense dishonors God
- If the offense broke a relationship
- If the offense is hurting others
- If the offense is hurting the offender
3. What is my part to own?
4. How can I seek reconciliation?
1. Confront
2. Community
3. Forgive
1. Confront
2. Community
3. Forgive
1. Confront
2 Principles when confronting someone who offended you...
- Be Gentle
- Be Clear
- Be Gentle
- Be Clear
2. Community
3. Forgive
Family Discussion Questions:
1. Can you think of a time you did not agree with a friend? Or a friend said something hurtful?
2. How did it make you feel? (have your kids draw a picture to share their story).
3. Why is it important to say sorry and to forgive others? What does Jesus say about forgiveness? (Ephesians 4:32)
1. Can you think of a time you did not agree with a friend? Or a friend said something hurtful?
2. How did it make you feel? (have your kids draw a picture to share their story).
3. Why is it important to say sorry and to forgive others? What does Jesus say about forgiveness? (Ephesians 4:32)