“Resume virtues are the ones you list on your resume, the skills you bring to a job, that contribute to your external success. Eulogy virtues are deeper. They’re the virtues that get talked about at your funeral, the ones that exist at the core of your being – whether you are kind, brave, honest, and faithful. Whether you actually lived. Most of us would say that the eulogy virtues are more important than the resume virtues, but I confess for long stretches of my life, I’ve spent more time thinking about the latter than the former.” David Brooks