A. Rejection= lying and deception
1. People pleasers, to gain acceptance
2. God pleasers, to gain acceptance
3. Fear of rejections drives behavior = defeated and victimized
4. You make statements like: ALL, NOBODY, EVERBODY
B. Control
1. Dominated; broken trust, generational at times
2. Trust issues
3. Fear of the outcome, fear of not knowing
4. Angry because you can’t control everything
5. Afraid someone does it better
6. Comes in VOWS, i.e. “I will never…”
C. Pride: sneaky and multifaceted
1. When your opinion is last you feel anger when your opinion is not used.
2. Pride is easily identified in others.
3. Justify you mistakes and hammers others mistakes
4. “I don’t need”
5. “I can handle this”
6. Can’t stand to be wrong or make a mistake