Ten things the Crucified Life is not...
1. Hating yourself
2. Intentionally abusing yourself
3. Denying your legitimate needs
4. Neglecting personal responsibilities
5. Comparing yourself negatively with others
6. Focusing on your shortcomings
7. Refusing to enjoy God's blessings
8. Feeling guilty all the time
9. Equating gloominess with holiness
10. Letting people walk over you