Sow bountifully and reap bountifully
6 Remember this: he who sows sparingly will also reap sparingly. He who sows bountifully will also reap bountifully. 7 Let each man give according as he has determined in his heart; not grudgingly, or under compulsion; for God loves a cheerful giver.
I am not a gardener...I do tomato plants but I don’t really spend much time with them even if I was the one who got them in the first place. Which you can take as a NO it is never me who gets them. For me growing stuff just takes so so so very very very long. But although I don’t do proper reaping and sowing even I understand the fact that if you don’t sow you just are not going to reap and although it is amazing at the amount of tomatoes you get from one plant, your reaping is always proportional to how sparsely you sow. I think that makes sense doesn’t it.
And in these first few verses Paul alludes to Proverbs 11:24-26, which says:
24 One person gives freely, yet gains even more;
another withholds unduly, but comes to poverty.
25 A generous person will prosper;
whoever refreshes others will be refreshed.
26 People curse the one who hoards grain,
but they pray God’s blessing on the one who is willing to sell.
All of this, and by my own observations, is obvious for those of you are gardeners. The person who measures seed too sparingly will likely not get much back. Stingy doesn't grow enough of anything. And wishes to be known as stingy?
That principle holds in other areas as well. The employee who watches the clock and gives only minimum effort is not likely to be selected for promotion. Those who have no time for others will find others have no time for them. I am afraid to say that includes our own children.
And “Pheidomenos” is the word used and it means more than “sparingly”. It speaks of holding back—using restraint—being careful—measuring by the teaspoon instead of by the gallon—calculating by inches instead of miles.
Now restraint can be good or bad, depending on how it is applied. It is a good idea to apply criticism sparingly—and angry words. It often helps to exercise restraint with money. When the prodigal son spent wastefully, he soon found himself eating pig slop and humble pie (Luke 15:11-24).
However the prodigal was selfish in his unrestraint. He did not use his wealth for the benefit of others but for his own gratification. Not using what the father had given him for good but for, well you know the implied use thereof.
But there are times when, finding an especially wonderful pearl, we should go and sell all that we have so that we might buy it (Matthew 13:45-46). There are times when we should throw caution to the wind—times when we should really extend ourselves. Go out on a limb. Keep in mind that we are not likely to reap bountifully if we sow sparingly.