Integrity
· Be truthful - no lies, no pretense
· Truthfulness = trust & trust is foundational to every healthy relationship
· Live in truth, honesty, transparency - it is the path to great communication and personal peace
Intentional
· If you are going to conquer this stressor you must be intentional, it will not fix itself
· Be angry, but deal with it, have the difficult talk
· Don’t bury your anger, deal with it
· Prioritize time for good communication
Inspiration
· Communication is powerful – speak words of life, not death (Proverbs 16:24, Proverbs 15:1)
· Speak words of encouragement, grace and hope
· You can speak difficult words of truth with love that will build up and not tear down
· Words of hope, appreciation and love are the things that can breathe new life, even into a broken relationship
Assignment: This week with your most important relationships, sit them down and tell them some of the things you most appreciate about them and their heart.