Tips on Peacemaking (Mediation)
1. Start with yourself- Confess sin- get right with God (I John 1:9)
2. Ask God for wisdom (James 1:5)
3. Pray with and for the parties (Pray against a spirit of offense)
4. Ask the parties to pray for themselves and each other
5. Read some scripture (Matthew 5:9, I Cor. 6:7, Matthew 6:14-15, Col. 3:13, John 13:34-35)
6. Remind the parties that there are spiritual forces involved in trying to prevent a peaceful resolution of the dispute (Ephes. 6:12)
7. Try to find the common ground first and move from there.
8. Ask each person to put themselves in the other person’s position (Luke 10:27)
9. Remind the parties that they will likely have to give up something in order to resolve the conflict
10.Point out that often times that winning is not worth the relational damage (I Cor. 6:7)
11.Remind the parties that others are watching them and that they are ambassadors of Christ (2 Cor. 5:20)
12. Be willing to propose creative solutions if the parties cannot reach agreement